A handwritten scribble

 

under construction infinitely
In the spirit of recognizing what happens in the background, this site was intentionally published ‘unfinished’...And nothing will be hidden as it continues to evolve.

 



An image of the online search results for "glob meaning" (showing globes and cats;-)

blog blog blog

Everywhere is "blog" . . . It bores me. (Don't you ever tire of any of ‘it’ ?) The results of an online search of "glob" tickled me. ;-)So, glob. globs of thoughts and things in a place to play* that will adapt and change and remain live and "under construction infinitely"—just as people have the ability to continuously grow and evolve in life—not from "under construction" to 'completion'—but everything in between...the messy, the spiral and circular...The things that are kept hidden. Here it is not a secret. Here there are no 'filters'.

*a place to playthat's not instagram.
(@notiamatherapist is still there)


the companion site to Not I am a therapist

🚣


Finesse not force. Row gently and flow.

archive of thoughts

it's nice to look up at the sky every now and then

It may be easier to notice aches and pains that manifest physically.
The body speaks.

Some times, things happen when you stop trying.

Awareness and intention shift the experience of things—including one's breath.

White Rabbit from "Alice in Wonderland" looking at a pocket watch with "Matrix" code running behind.

I am a companion site.

A place where you can findIdeas that don't need perfecting
Arrangement that may never 'finish'
Things not on the main site and why
Discovery via exploration
(the "wonderland"・the "play"・the "rabbit holes")
I'm Not hiding behind-the-scenes.
I'm revealing it.
Acknowledging the process.
I'm being real.
If you're looking for completion,
there is no such thing...
If you can have fun in 'the mess',
please swipe and click around⋯and have fun! 🙃
Not I am a blog. I am a companion site to

Not I am a therapist ➚

" <Insert quote: something someone else said> "

¿ to say something about yourself ?


Rabbit holes

I'm a backwards site you think? I'm exactly as intended!—"inspired" by how ‘backwards’ societal prioritizations, social conventions and constructs, and systems can be.I'm a wonderland that shuns SEO'ing and blogging that aim to monitor and hook people ➻ I wonder what's created⇀what intention↼when those motivations underlie what's being offered.

• seloH tibbaR also erA elpoeP

The frustrated scribble that inspired me

Handwritten 'scribble' of formulaic website elements.

Message will
Appear BELOW! (A message referencing the scribble and what I didn't want to do on Not I am a therapist.)

TESTIMONIALS

"My way"   because quoting / requesting testimonials from   people   who   work with me   in    P r i v a t e   
Doesn't Feel Right to me.*


The work needs you

Your empathy is impressive.🫀

                        You're capable of things that can't be taught

You do self-inquiry with feedback loops, not just follow external rules—which is precisely how practice evolved before industrialization and standardization

            I admire your integrity

✏️ Her writing reveals a creativity
that will serve her as a therapist

🌻 You have a strong capacity for witnessing — both being witnessed and witnessing others. That's a specific relational muscle. Not everyone can hold that space.

You don't sell solutions; you offer presence.

I will share this:
people who have worked with me have shared that people in their lives noticed change. That warms my heart...because I feel happy for them—that they feel positive about their evolution, that it is recognized and acknowledged.


*So, this exists here in a glob, in case you wanted Words others have used about me

(others who have been clinical supervisors, academic advisors, professors, colleagues, etc.)

All said, Please book a Free Consultation ➚    

so You can decide for yourself.

 

*people make $$
to influence people to spend $
so that other people make $$$


Versus
a sort of mission statement

Instead of: 'treating' you like you're a problem to be solved

I: listen to help uncover what underlies things you find problematic

Instead of: being "in session" for a 50-minute hour, and you returning to the everyday with a 'hangover'

I: provide the full hour, reserving the final 10 minutes to review, ground, plan, et cetera

Instead of: taking the 'expert' seat, silently analyzing and assuming to know the answer

I: am open about what I track, continue to be curious, and check in with you

Instead of: staying unconsciously looped in intellectual dialogue

I: recognize the wisdom of the body's pure and honest guidance

Instead of: seeing people as broken, needing to be fixed

I: recognize wholeness, and parts that want to emerge

Instead of: …

I:…

professionally licensed, not working as a therapist